tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14473417.post6358218143716971462..comments2024-03-28T03:31:42.278-07:00Comments on Chiron: DVRoryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08483616030072739190noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14473417.post-70632273853156113952013-06-25T09:42:28.123-07:002013-06-25T09:42:28.123-07:00Victims of DV can turn on those attempting to help...Victims of DV can turn on those attempting to help for a variety of reasons. And sometimes when a victim of DV seeks help those they turn to can turn on them. A tough area to work within when trying to help.Waynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09442291413404618813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14473417.post-60752471322113641812013-06-25T07:53:14.704-07:002013-06-25T07:53:14.704-07:00pangolin-
The first couple of par's here:
http...pangolin-<br />The first couple of par's here:<br />http://chirontraining.blogspot.com/2012/12/bullying-as-human-behavior.html<br />Roryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08483616030072739190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14473417.post-64994346099042640222013-06-25T03:53:41.304-07:002013-06-25T03:53:41.304-07:00I know even less about DV than you claim to know. ...I know even less about DV than you claim to know. But your point about bullying is well taken. I'm a small-town, rural MA instructor, and I often work with kids. As you'd guess, a few of them are there because they've been on the wrong end of the bullying.<br /><br />It drives me crazy having to dance around the edge of the accepted behaviours laid down by the schools, particularly when I know damned well that they don't work, and actually make things worse. I hadn't considered the school's own vested interest in creating frightened, passive victims before, though. That's an interesting idea.Flintharthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17456024642528783549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14473417.post-35243633445920820122013-06-25T00:56:52.966-07:002013-06-25T00:56:52.966-07:00As a parent, I'm interested in your opinion of...As a parent, I'm interested in your opinion of what strategies do work when addressing bullying. Thankfully, I do not have a situation to address as yet but I would like to be prepared. My children have already picked up the idea that "all bullies are cowards" and I am concerned that this will not prepare them for confronting a real bullying situation.purplepangolinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17297351611950245044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14473417.post-30099212168773811772013-06-24T12:01:35.893-07:002013-06-24T12:01:35.893-07:00That also goes a long way to explaining why the vi...That also goes a long way to explaining why the victims of DV can suddenly turn on someone trying to help. They think what is happening to them is normal through "breeding", culture or both and the outside force trying to step in (socially, legally or physically) can be viewed as an unwarranted or unjustified attack on their family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com